Saturday, November 20, 2010

CaN'T BuY Me LoVe

"Can't Buy Me Love", a Song made by the Beatles,is a term I use today that rips from the seams of my own heart. I have always thought of this song, and even live by it today. Simple and conformed , it explains the basic concept of how I feel about men trying to buy a woman's way to her heart. Especially mine to say the least. Though I have to admit, I've gone through the struggles of relationships and two failed marriages, I felt the powers to be where I dealt with a man trying to buy his way into my heart with flowering me with his powers of cash flow. This to me, is not a way to a woman's heart, and it doesn't work with me in any way form, mind, soul, or heart. Surely, men today must see that most simple women out there are not all about the powers of money and we are old fashioned.
The thought of a man trying to buy my love to get what he wants in his life, just purely makes me sad. I know such a man , and purely it makes me angry, and as well sad. Though in today's society, money is an every day of life, I still live by my motto of that "money is the root of all evil". It will not make me happy, it will not find me love, and it will not satisfy my needs in the end. I'm not a materialistic woman at all, and I can live without a great deal things in life. For me, trying to win my heart with lavishing me with gifts is not my idea of making me a happy lady. In fact, it just makes me sad, and even cry.  So why do men do it? For the pure ego they have in themselves when they know they have the power and the greed of what makes life worth living....money and women. They know they can get away with doing it. If they want something and have the power of money, they will do whatever it takes to get their way. That's the power of money today. For myself, that isn't how I want to be bought by LOVE at all. In fact, it creeps me out and it disgusts me. I would be miserable for life and just aching and screaming for true love instead. That isn't how love should be in my eyes.
So why do us women think that the power of men and buying our love is a great thing? Good question. I surely like to know myself. I'm old fashioned, and simple minded these days and I surely can't justify the answer myself. I'm still trying to understand the concept of why there are men I know who would want to buy my love and think I be happy living in that lifestyle. Whatever happened to matters of the heart anymore? True love maybe? Am I just that old fashioned, or purely is today's society just doesn't care about the true nature of what is deep down in our hearts anymore. Money matters the most and that rules over the heart.  I'm sorry to say,but money is evil, and purely not going to take over my life, let alone rule my heart and soul. I would wind up miserable for the rest of my life and be depressed. That isn't how I want my life to end at all. I still want to grow old with someone and at least be happy at the same time, not have that feeling of being stuck just because I was forced into that relationship for the sake of money. 
 Men can try to buy me love all they want, but it won't make this woman happy or satisfied in the end. It makes me sad, depressed and quite aching inside and screaming in pain mentally and emotionally. Not something I want to deal with for the rest of my life.  For others out there, it's something they have more power to deal with and I just don't. I'm too sensitive of a woman and the Beatles song "Can't Buy Me Love" will forever live in my heart and soul....and live on.

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